The sooner we recognize we are in enemy mode, the sooner we can escape.
Jim Wilder provides a helpful checklist to recognize when we’re in enemy mode.
Jim Wilder’s Enemy Mode Checklist:
- wants the “enemy to lose”
- can’t discern when others are trying to help
- recruits others to attack the enemy
- feels justified in hating
- sees other people’s motives as “bad”
- turns people into objects (not fellow humans)
- feels alone (no one on “my” side)
- will often attack or withdraw from allies
- sees enemy mode as a strength
We can’t avoid enemy mode, but we can escape. Compassion and curiosity help us imitate Jesus as we love our enemies.
Because he likes us,
Craig