A brain in enemy mode is all about the win. Enemy mode lacks compassion. Enemy mode lacks attachment. Enemy mode fights for status.

The sooner we recognize we are in enemy mode, the sooner we can escape.

Jim Wilder provides a helpful checklist to recognize when we’re in enemy mode.

Jim Wilder’s Enemy Mode Checklist: 

  • wants the “enemy to lose” 
  • can’t discern when others are trying to help
  • recruits others to attack the enemy 
  • feels justified in hating 
  • sees other people’s motives as “bad” 
  • turns people into objects (not fellow humans) 
  • feels alone (no one on “my” side) 
  • will often attack or withdraw from allies 
  • sees enemy mode as a strength

We can’t avoid enemy mode, but we can escape. Compassion and curiosity help us imitate Jesus as we love our enemies. 

Because he likes us,

Craig 

Escaping Enemy Mode